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익숙, When Familiarity Starts Creating Distance

A reflective story on how familiarity creates emotional distance, and why the word 익숙 becomes something you wear rather than explain.

Minimal ash sweatshirt with small Korean word logo expressing emotional familiarity and quiet distance

 The reason I feel distant may actually be because my mind moved first.


When comfort stops asking questions

Familiarity is often mistaken for closeness. But over time, repetition can quiet curiosity. What once required attention begins to exist without effort, and that ease slowly reshapes emotion. Nothing is wrong—yet something feels slightly removed. This is the kind of comfort that no longer checks in, because it assumes everything is fine.


Emotional stability that feels muted

There is safety in knowing what comes next. The same routines, the same responses, the same presence. But emotional stability can become flat when it’s no longer noticed. The feeling doesn’t disappear; it softens. It becomes background noise instead of a signal, leaving a calm that feels oddly distant.


Why this word belongs on the body

Wearing a word like 익숙 isn’t about explanation. It’s about acknowledgment. Clothing becomes a quiet surface for emotions that don’t demand attention but still exist. The word sits there the way familiarity does—unforced, understated, and slightly removed. It doesn’t insist on meaning. It lets the wearer carry it naturally.


Distance that isn’t separation

In relationships, distance doesn’t always mean drifting apart. Sometimes it means staying exactly where you are for too long. The reason I feel distant may actually be because my mind moved first. Not away—but inward, adjusting to comfort that no longer surprises.




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